Where do I begin? I mean literally, where do I begin to unravel the litany of things that I need to accomplish to make this move? If I over analyze, over think, over strategize, it begins to get complex, quickly. Schools, homes, cars (or not), things in my apartment here, things for my apartment there, visas, adjustment period, culture shock, and other “stuff”.
Just listing these things down makes me anxious….then I realize, who am I kidding! The only things that really matter are the plane tickets. The beauty of a ticket is it automatically streamlines and simplifies everything. You get a specific date when your place “here” needs to be empty, you get 2 suitcases to back your stuff in, and really…what more do you need?
- I am renting, not buying, so if my friends are not able to help me find an apartment before I get there, I will surely and quickly find an apartment once I arrive. Check
- We are getting there in the summer, so school will be on vacation. And I made the decision to homeschool for the of this school year. So for now we have got school down to a science (literally, plus Latin, Spanish, math, grammar, history and geography). Check.
- With bus rides for a quarter and taxis between $1.50 and $2.00, who needs a car! Definitely not me. Check.
- I am selling, giving away, donating, or putting in storage, everything in my apartment here and I am getting everything new for the apartment there (I’m really zen about home furnishings anyway). Check.
- We will extend the term of our tourist visa for 6 months before we leave the US and I will figure out the rest while I am chillin’ in a relaxed pose in Ecuador. Check.
- Adjustment period? Culture shock? Seriously, it is Cuenca, Ecuador not Timbuktu, Mali. Visit the Latino neighborhoods and businesses in your town, imagine it significantly cleaner (because Cuenca is cleaner than the vast majority of American cities) and in a valley surrounded by mountains. Adjustment finished. Check.
- There is no other “stuff”. And if there is, it will be taken care of at some point, while in my relaxed Ecuadorian pose. (There is the issue of closing down my business, that but requires a whole post of its own.)
So the biggest step is to purchase our tickets and I already told my oldest daughter we are making two stops immediately after her high school graduation in June,
- Grandma’s house – to drop off all of her boarding school stuff; and
- JFK airport, to catch our flight to Quito.
And like the awesome daughter she is, she is right on board (pun intended).
Step 1 – Decide the specific date we are leaving and buy airline tickets.